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February 2019 Newsletter

Our Life, Our Love, Our Child, Our Family…

As an adoptive parent I have always been amazed at the courage and strength of birth parents. They make one of the hardest decisions they will ever make. That is to place their child for adoption. While many would discourage this act of unselfishness as unnecessary. They would encourage the other alternatives they have to choose from.

Many children never have the chance of belonging to a loving family because of these other alternatives.
In the Our Life we journey toward each other, the birth parent and the adoptive family.

Both driven by need find and provide a home for a child. Each wanting what is in the best interest of the child. Desiring to provide a life for the child that would help the child reach its full potential.

We all share Our Love for the child. We have that in common. The adoption of a child creates a unique bond between the birth parents and adoptive parents. Adoption is built on a platform of respect and love.

Through this process, the child can be truly loved by all involved in their life. When I first began the adoption process I wondered if I could love a child that was not mine biologically.

When they placed my son into my arms and he grabbed my suspender, LOVE, rushed over me like a waterfall. Truly ‘love makes the world go around’.

It was at this point that he became Our Child. My wife and I realize that we became the parents because the birth parents trusted us to raise this child. So in a very real way we all the parents seeking what was best for the child.

A family is more than skin color, race or biology. It is the sharing of your life and love without hesitation for our children.

SURVEY OF UTAH ADOPTIVE PARENTS

Utah families who recently adopted an infant (under the age of 6 months) are invited to complete an online survey about their adoption experience. The survey is part of a research project sponsored by the Department of Psychology at the University of Utah.

The survey is intended to improve our understanding of the factors that help adoptive families thrive. It takes around 30 minutes to complete, and each person who completes it will receive a $20 Amazon gift card. To complete the survey, go to the following website:

http://earlyexperiences.psych.utah.edu/research.php

You can also learn more about the research project by visiting the Facebook page:

http://www.facebook.com/utahadoptionsurvey

November Newsletter 2018

Birth Parent Newsletter – November 2018

Many adoptive families make the decision to adopt after many years of dealing with infertility. While attending A Act of Love’s orientation meeting, our family came to realize that this was the agency we were going to adopt through.

When we attended the orientation meeting and met with Kathy and Isaac at A Act of Love Adoptions, we were impressed by how warm and welcoming they were. They were upfront about the fees and the whole process. It was really refreshing to see them be so transparent. It really helped set the tone.

Focus on the Birth Parents

Another reason why we selected A Act of Love Adoption was because they not only care for the adoptive parents, but also focuses on the birth parent’s needs.

My first impressions of the organization as a whole was, it is not a place where they just find a baby for a family. A Act of Love is where they actually serve moms and support them. A Act of Love promotes the idea that adoption is a partnership with the agency, birth parents and adoptive family to combine forces to help support the mission of serving birth parents.

A Change of Perspective

A Act of Love changed our perspective about adoption. Just the mere option that I could share God’s love with somebody that I never met, and actually have that be a part of my adoption story, and not just a part of it, but the focal point of it. Adoptive Family

Recognition of November as National Adoption Month

President of the United States

President Trump spoke on adoption, kicking off National Adoption month this November. During his second annual speech, he described placing a child for adoption or adopting a child as an act of love that enriches American society.

The President went on to say: “Adoption is a blessing for all involved. It provides needed relief to birth parents, who may not, for whatever reason, be in a position to raise a child. It fosters loving homes for children. It enables individuals to grow their families and share their love. And it fosters strong families, which are integral to ensuring strong communities and a resilient country.”

In addition, President Trump highlighted the power of adoption to let women know they are not alone in an unexpected pregnancy. He stated, “Adoption affirms the inherent value of human life and signals that every child – born or unborn – is wanted and loved. Children, regardless of race, sex, age, or disability, deserve a loving embrace into families they can call their own. This month, we honor the thousands of American families who have grown because of adoption.”

During his address, President Trump encouraged Americans to observe National Adoption Month by helping children in need secure a promising future with a forever family, allowing them to enter adulthood with the love and support they deserve.

Mr. Trump ended his speech by exclaiming, “Adoptive parents are a selfless and loving part of God’s plan for their future children.”
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Post Placement Counseling For Birth Parents – Newsletter October 2018

There are many reasons why counseling may be needed after placing a child for adoption. Whatever your reason, don’t be afraid to ask for help. It can seem intimidating, but there are counselors out there who are sensitive to your adoption journey and will be able to help you navigate the rougher times. A Act of Love Adoptions has counselors that are willing to help you find the resources you need. Here are a few things you should be aware of when you seek counseling help.

1. Shop around before choosing a counselor.

There are many counselors out there. Don’t be shy about meeting with someone ahead of time before choosing them. Many counselors will be happy to offer a free consultation to be sure it would be a good fit between the two of you.

2. Be open in your sessions.

It can feel strange to be completely open with a stranger, but sharing the whole picture with your counselor will only help him or her help you work through your problems. It will be challenging to open up at times, but be patient with yourself and only do what you are comfortable with.

3. Find a support system.

There may be a birth mother support group locally that you might wish to attend. There are also groups online that can help you navigate your feelings and be the support system you need in between sessions or share breakthroughs. A support group can be the extra help you need to keep you progressing forward.

4. Ask for homework.

If your counselor doesn’t send you home with things to work on, don’t be afraid to ask for it. This will help strengthen what you’ve learned in sessions and help you grow outside them, too.

5. Keep a journal about your progress.

Not only can writing be meditative, but it can also be a great way to keep track of your progress. Looking back and seeing how far you have come can be its own reward. It’s also a good idea to keep track and remember all the breakthroughs you’ve made.
If you’re unsure where you can get help, talk to your adoption agency. The agency may also be able to connect you to a counselor.

A Act of Love Birth Parent Newsletter: October 25, 2018

Get the PDF version here: Post Placement Counseling For Birth Parents

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